Rehearsal Dinner

The rehearsal dinner is traditionally held on the eve of the wedding and is generally hosted by the parents of the groom.  It’s a festive occasion during which the bride and groom are roasted and toasted.  It also affords an excellent opportunity for the two families to get better acquainted and for the bride and groom to present the wedding party with “thank-you” gifts during the course of the evening.

While it’s generally accepted that the groom’s family picks up the tab, there are more modern approaches which puts this expense up for grabs.  The couple might take matters into their own hands, or both sets of parents may choose to share the honors.  The event can be as casual or as elaborate as dictated by taste and budget.

The guest list should include immediate family of  both the bride and groom, wedding party members and spouses.  If family members travel from out of town for the wedding, it is appropriate to invite them as well.  By all means, remember to invite the person who’s going to officiate your wedding and his spouse.