Your options are very open for the wedding ceremony.

There is no legal requirement or specification as to
what kind of vows you should use or what kind of
wedding ceremony you should have, so anything that
makes you happy goes.

Further, given that the vows and ceremony do not have legal value, they do not have to happen on the same day your license is signed by the officiant and witnesses. This information is helpful if your legal ability to get married is unexpectedly delayed (unending divorce..) but you already invited your friends to your ceremony: have your ceremony now and sign the papers later.

Conversely, you can sign the papers first and delay the ceremony until you're ready.

Last, if your relatives do not get along like the Capulets and the Montagues for whatever religious, racial or financial reason, you can have two ceremonies, and not let them see each other.